Frequently Asked Questions
The questions we get asked most, answered briefly. Each one links through to the page that covers it properly.
Hosting and quantities
More detail in the hosting guides.
What size charcuterie board do I need?
Work from roughly one inch of board length per guest as a floor, then round up. Four to six people are comfortable on a 12-inch board, eight to ten on a 16-inch, and twelve to twenty want 20 inches or more. If the board is the only food you are serving, go up one size.
How many appetizers per person should I plan?
Four to six pieces per person if dinner is following, and ten to twelve per person for a two-to-three hour party with no meal. People eat most heavily in the first hour and then taper, so a four-hour party needs roughly 50 percent more food than a two-hour one rather than double.
How much cheese and meat per person on a board?
About 2 ounces of cheese and 2 ounces of cured meat per person when the board is a starter, and roughly double both if the board is the meal. Round up rather than down: both keep well, and an empty board an hour in is a worse outcome than leftovers.
How far in advance can you make a charcuterie board?
Assemble up to about four hours ahead, cover it and refrigerate. Leave off crackers and anything that browns, like cut apple and pear, and add those at the last minute. Take the board out about forty-five minutes before serving so the cheese is not fridge-cold.
How many people is a good dinner party?
Six to eight. Six lets everyone hold one conversation, which is the best version of an evening. Above eight the table splits into two conversations, which is fine but different, and it roughly doubles the work.
How much table space does each person need?
About 24 inches of table edge per person for comfort, and no less than 20. Below 20 inches elbows collide and the meal feels cramped regardless of how good the food is.
Choosing boards, plates and glasses
Full picks in charcuterie boards, dinnerware and drinkware.
Is acacia or bamboo better for a charcuterie board?
Bamboo is lighter, cheaper and more stain-resistant, so it suits someone who hosts occasionally and wants no upkeep. Acacia is heavier, has visible grain variation and looks like furniture on a table, but it needs food-safe oil a few times a year. Neither is wrong; they suit different households.
What is the difference between a charcuterie board and a cheese board?
Charcuterie means cured meat, so a charcuterie board is built around meat with cheese supporting it, and a cheese board is the reverse. Cheese boards are usually smaller and ship with knives. In everyday use the terms have merged, and one larger flat board covers both jobs.
Can I use a cutting board as a charcuterie board?
Yes, provided it is clean and in good condition. The practical limits are that prep boards are usually smaller than serving boards and deeply scored boards trap oils. The one firm rule: do not serve on a board that has cut raw meat without washing it thoroughly first.
How do you clean a wooden charcuterie board?
Scrape off debris, wash quickly by hand with warm water and a little dish soap, rinse, and dry immediately. Then stand it on edge so both faces dry evenly, because drying flat is what cups a board. Never a dishwasher, never a soak, and oil it with food-grade mineral oil when water stops beading.
How many place settings of dinnerware do I need?
Service for eight is the right default for most households. Not because you regularly feed eight, but because four settings means washing up mid-meal the moment anyone comes over, and because plates break.
What is the most durable dinnerware?
Corelle's three-layer Vitrelle glass is materially more chip and break resistant than stoneware or porcelain, which is why it suits households with children and tile floors. The trade is that it is thin and reads as functional rather than special.
What does 18/10 mean on flatware?
It is the alloy: 18 percent chromium and 10 percent nickel. Chromium gives corrosion resistance and nickel gives the bright finish. 18/10 and 18/8 are the good grades; 18/0 has no nickel, costs less and spots more readily. A fridge magnet sticking to a fork tells you it is 18/0.
How many wine glasses do I need?
Two per expected guest, and at least twelve if you host at all. People switch wines, set a glass down and lose it, and one always breaks. Twelve inexpensive glasses beat six expensive ones for actual hosting.
Do I need different glasses for red and white wine?
Not for most households. One good universal glass with a medium bowl that tapers toward the rim handles both perfectly well. Varietal-specific shapes do make a measurable difference to an aromatic wine, but that is a refinement rather than a requirement.
Gifts
More in gifts for hosts.
What is a good hostess gift?
Something the host can set down on a counter and deal with tomorrow. Cheese knives are the strongest pick in this category, because anyone who hosts owns a board and almost certainly has the mediocre knives that came with it. Good olive oil, flaky salt and a serving piece all work well too.
What should you not bring as a hostess gift?
Anything that creates a task. Loose flowers need a vase and trimming, a dessert needs plating and fridge space, and a bottle handed over with “we should open this” needs a decision. The host is busiest at the exact moment you hand it over.
How much should you spend on a hostess gift?
Roughly what a decent bottle of wine costs is right for a normal dinner invitation. Spend more for a weekend stay or a holiday, where you are taking up real time and space. Spending a lot on a casual dinner can make a host uncomfortable rather than pleased.
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Who writes Tray & Toast?
Janet H., the hands-on owner behind Janet Media Group. She runs a venue and feeds groups most weekends, which is the basis of the advice here. She holds no culinary, cheesemonger or sommelier qualification, and none is claimed anywhere on the site.
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